cornbread recipe

So many have asked me how I make my cornbread. I posted before several times. One person attacked me, saying it was not Southern at all. I said, well tell that to the ppl standing in line to get a piece! Lol. I use a ratio of 2 parts flour and one part cornmeal. I dislike it too much crumble. So I make a large skillet.
2 c flour self-rising
1 c cornmeal
1/2 c oil
Lots of buttermilk ( 2 cups or more. I make it very wet)
1/4 cup oil in the skillet.
450 oven. Heads up!
I make MEXICAN CORNBREAD WITH THIS RECIPE. HERE IS WHAT I ADD TO IT:
Two eggs
1 can cream corn
Onion chopped
pepperoncino peppers
Green pepper
I small bag sharp cheddar cheese
A little pepper juice.
So simple!
CABBAGE SOUP
I small head cabbage
Keep in mind I make large portions
2 lbs ground sirloin.
3 lg cans of whole tomatoes squash
I TBP chili powder
1 green
pepper
3 large onions chopped
4 dashes Texas Pete hot sauce
Large can kidney beans
3 cups pinto beans, cooked.
Water to make soupy.
Now,
Brown meat with chilli powder.
Put in pot. Add onions, green pepper, cabbage, kidney beans, pinto beans, and water. Use plenty of water.
Bring to a boil and then simmer for an hour or more. This is my own private interpretation. Thank you for all the sweet comments. There’s no wrong way.